Is it just me or is class out of style?
some girls just give me the heebie jeebies! maybe its a big practical joke, and i am getting played; because there is no way they honestly find that attractive. i mean its to the point where i am mad i even have to look at their pictures littering my pictures sometimes....ladies we have got to do better!
then i wonder if anyone ever even tells them...
probably not. do we stay quiet to protect their self esteem?
i know, at some point in my life i have done it before, i'll be honest. but personally, i believe letting them think that type of presentation to the world is okay ends up doing just the opposite.
it devalues us.
if you don't let them know the message they are sending then people will keep receiving the wrong one.
other women are probably entertained by the demise of these types of girls and figure, less competition for them. i know some of us would watch our sisters continually decay into ill dressed cartoonization of what women aren't supposed to be, choosing not to uplift our misguided sisters with the truth, but instead leave them to their misconceptions with only so much as an 'smh'.
i know.
i have done that before, i won't lie.
or maybe, nothing is said because in this day and age, honesty can sometimes be considered hating. and looking out for people gets confused with trying to tear them down.
i know it does because you guessed it, i got caught in that crossfire, as well.
but au contraire. no one said the truth was warm and fuzzy, or that growth was painless. even biologically, muscles have to be broken down to be built up. sometimes it has to sting a little now to prevent it killing you later. some of us need to grow up, stop abusing the term "hating" just because we can't accept the facts because they cause us to examine ourselves, and somebody was bold enough to call us out.
but i hate to see us come to this. so even so, i must share the truth, and grin and bear whatever comes with it.
oh naive ones, call me a hater if you must; but i will call out the er in our ways because i must.
women, come on! we are more than this. we bear humanity in our womb and stand as its backbone.
what have we been reduced to? it sickens me to sit and watch people strive harder to become objects of sexual desire than self respect. some of us are becoming cruel jokes...and its not funny.
is anyone as frustrated as i? the worst part is, some of you are reading this and are so prepared to point out or ponder who you know that fits this category when in fact, you may be one of them.
i am tired of the standard of no standard, renaming non-existent self-respect with sexual liberation and calling classlessness, sexy.
i am tired of girls getting mad that men have attention spans as short as your dress and minds about as full as their push up, and wondering why a little of nothing is all they give when that is all you offer with your demeanor.
some of us are walking, breathing, blasphemies because we were made in the image of God and grieve him when we know not our own beauty. i am tired of it. learn what sexy is. because what i have been seeing lately, is not it.
on that note,
Love. Compassion. Royalty!
Qu3eN G
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